Charity Gifts – Unusual Gift Ideas for Weddings
Unusual Wedding Present – Give a Charity Gift
Does the happy couple need another toaster? – Give ‘em a goat
Many couples planning their wedding already have all the possessions they need for their future together, especially if they’re already sharing a well-furnished home. They don’t want their friends and family wasting money on unwanted gifts. Yet often guests insist on buying something to mark the special occasion – so more and more couples are now taking an ethical decision to ask guests to buy charity gifts instead of buying items they really don’t need.
Charity wedding lists won’t suit every couple, particularly those who still need a bit of help setting up home with the usual toaster, pots, pans, dinner sets and bed linen. But considering our relative wealth, and the vast amounts of money many couples are willing – and able – to spend on the wedding day itself, it seems like many couples could afford to sacrifice their wedding gifts for a better cause and ask for charity gifts to be sent to those who most need them
Several organisations provide couples with such a service, some even target specific gifts to those in most need.
Charity Gifts Ideas – Goats
Oxfam Unwrapped have developed a dedicated wedding gift list for people to choose charity gifts that will go directly to people who need them most. The best selling charity gift at the moment is a goat! This surprises many but when you consider how useful a goat – or a pair of goats can be to poor communities – providing nourishing milk and fertilizer for crops and if allowed to breed new generations to continue the goat’s good work.
You can see more unusual wedding gift ideas on the Wedding Gifts Wish List pages. Gifts that help poor people who are suffering around the world include fresh water, seeds, clothing and shelter.
Other Wedding Gifts Lists
When couples sign up at Wedding List Giving, first they decide which charity or charities they would like to support from a long list of local and national organisations, from the Alzheimer’s Society and Action against Hunger, to the World Wildlife Fund and War Child.
Couples can support organisations and communities whose cause they feel strongly about or to which they have a personal connection. Their wedding guests can then donate as much or as little as they can afford via the website – and for every pound that’s donated, at least 100 per cent of donations reach the chosen charities. If guests also ‘Gift Aid’ their donations, the charities actually receive £1.16 for every pound donated.
Giveit provides a similar service, with donations ‘wrapped up’ like gifts on the website so that guests can see what a particular donation could fund for each charity – meaning they get to see how far their money could stretch. After the wedding, couples are sent a certificate confirming the total donations to each of their chosen charities.
If there are still a few things you need for your home, you could combine charity gifts with a traditional gift list. Department store John Lewis recently launched a combined service where couples can ask friends and family for a donation to charity as well as list some traditional household gifts they still need.
Alternatively, if you would still like guests to give you gifts, but gifts with a conscience, you could set up an ethical wedding list. Fair Trade wedding gift lists are available from companies such as Ganesha which imports gorgeous home furnishings and accessories from India, sourced from co-operatives. Or you could opt for an eco-friendly gift list such as Our Green Wedding List which has a wide range of ethical and eco-friendly products.
By asking friends and family to choose from an ethical or eco-friendly wedding charity gift list you open their eyes to the responsible shopping alternatives that exist, and that may just convert a few more people into new ways of thinking – and shopping – along the way.












This is kinda weird present. Because people can’t really look dissapointed because it’d seem like all they care about is themselves yet getting a gift that says that the money has been donated to a charity in your name doesn’t seem like a good idea.
Well, it’s absolutely a weird gift! However, if you raised this goat then eventually have her own kids, you’ll be earning too much! A great start for newly wed couples!
Very freaky presents, i prefer to give something exhotic from foreign countries, like a magic carpet from India XD.
Ok, it is a bit weird, bit some people (rather few) prefer a donation to charity in their name instead of presents. Of course it’s always better to make sure if they’d like that. Maybe I’m materialistic, but I think I would be a little bit dissapointed. I’d rather have another toaster.
Fab article! I am now definitely considering an alternative wedding list. Let’s face it, I basically have all household stuff and it would be selfish to get new stuff for the sake of it. [P.S. I did notice a couple of typos in the goat paragraph, just in case you want to correct them - sorry for being a pedant but I know writers hate missing their own typos ("best seeling charity gift" should be "best selling charity gift" / "Several organisations provide couples with such a service, some even targetspecifice gifts to those in most need." - space needed and 'e' removed from specific).]
Good call Henry – thanks for spotting the typos – should all be corrected now, Munch On!
Yeah, I think it would only work if the married couple said please don’t buy us anything but donate to charity instead. Assuming they don’t need anything or indeed want anything may be a bit out of order.
LOL! That really makes me wonder if we didn’t put in a cash-only request on our wedding invitation. We were about to move and a goat will definitely be difficult to bring along.
“Oxfam Unwrapped have developed a dedicated wedding gift list for people to choose charity gifts that will go directly to people who need them most. The best selling charity gift at the moment is a goat”
So unique to give out as a present, I must agree. But will the person not think it crazy or weird to be receiving and bringing home with her a goat as a present? I don’t think I am going to give anyone a live goat..lol
Very unusual indeed! Aside from being weird, wouldn’t it be hard to bring along a goat with you to the wedding??
i consider it such a noble act of kindness, those newly wed couples who could afford to sacrifice their wedding gifts for a better cause and ask for charity gifts to be sent to those who most need them.
A noble gesture indeed. Really puts things into perspective – you might enjoy that new dinner set for a few weeks but giving a community something that they will enjoy forever is priceless.
That’s quite the gift! I never would guessed that people would give a goat as a gift.
-Jack
Quite an unusual gift idea indeed. Not sure about the comments of some. The goat as a gift is actually given to poor families the charity is link to and not to the newlywed couples.
A gift that helps the poor. Brilliant idea.
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Our friends did the charity list thing when they got married a couple of years ago and buying them a goat (donated to village in Africa) was definitely one of the strangest but coolest wedding presents I have bought. Its a story I usually tell new wedding photography clients in the hope that some of them go the same way for their gift list.
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I never heard that wedding gift ideas before just now
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I think goat is a good ideas for wedding gift but my aunts wedding they always received several household equipment especially stove lol.